Low Sex Drive
Posted by admin in Sexual Health on June 22, 2011
Introduction
Apart from the time when the sexual body of a guy was still getting matured, there have been umpteen encounters of women who have faced the wrath of them being developed completely. In other words, ever since their development was complete, they have been raring to get themselves to charge at any time, so as to speak. Part of the problem has always been the fact that guys have posed as light bulbs at any given time, much to the chagrin of a female’s hormonal imbalances. The issue of getting turned on by the male side is not any issue with them really. Its with women who suffer most pangs of a lowered sex drive. While males would love to have sex almost 6 times in a week with a restful day for them and their counter parts most women would not agree for the same. Its probably not the same for the woman. There are many times when certain amount of medication that affects their systems, or even putting on weight that causes a hindrance for them to take part in sexual activities.
Possibilities
There are a few possibilities that we might need to examine before we really conclude reasons for this lowered sexual drive. There are some who are fed up with the same sexual position, but perhaps don’t know for sure that this may be the reason for boredom in the bedroom. There are some who are probably medically unfit for having a healthy sex life. Hypothyroidism is another great reason for low sex drive. Hormonal imbalances may not always look all that severe but the fact is that they are known to be doses of slow poison that seep through our lives without we being completely involved in the process.
Domestic problems and improper understanding amongst both partners can also be another reason for their worry as the mind, especially the sub conscious mind never forgets. It slowly deprives your vagina to get all that heated up and lubricated, so much so that even if you want to change the situation and get there, its rather difficult as you’ve already frozen your system.
Certain amount of prolonged illness may also provide to this problem. But most importantly, this occurs after the birth of a child, especially after the first child. The trauma of child birth as it were and the boon of breast feeding is a feeling so orgasmic that the need for sex is thrown out of the window. Its always a case with men feeling left out after a baby is born. First the woman needs to get back on track with her body and the new entrant in life and secondly, the joy of holding the little bundle of joy in one’s arms is so great that all other joys that seem momentary are eluded. Read the rest of this entry »
Erection
Posted by admin in Sexual Health on June 22, 2011
Lets take this analogy a bit further! There are many women who use the metaphor of a balloon to describe the male form of arousal. Most researchers believe that it was very interesting learning about some facts about the male genital. Interestingly enough, (I almost imagine the women nodding in unison!) this male organ is nothing but muscle coupled with lavishly connected nerve endings and blood vessels. One of the reasons why males are so quick to respond to any form of sexual advances would probably be the fact that the tip of the penis, or fly as it is popularly known is meticulously clogged with nerves that are all too sensitive to touch. There are two main tubes that follow through its physical make up.
To be honest, the reaction to touch is more like a hot air balloon or even a hydraulic lift that completely swells in no time. It is perhaps the action packed motion that makes the male so tactile to any surrounding stimuli. Most research has clearly indicated that it’s quite predictable to understand all that goes on in a male mind, with regard to sexual fantasies. It’s all the more difficult to understand females. Coming back to the scene of an erected fly! During periods of arousal, the gentle stroking and titillating effect has a long way to go before it gets enveloped into the vagina. Since most male reactions are quite prolonged, especially sexual ones, the fly tends to swell even more during the actual act of intercourse. It is more of an involuntary act that forms the complete circuit of lovemaking! And henceforth, the body is set for some real rapid-fire rounds of passion. Read the rest of this entry »